Read it and weap, or click away!

So I have a slight apology to make. I have not been updating this blog becuase I was waiting till I had a very profound word to pass on to the web world. I was afraid to put raw thoughts out there and was working on well written pieces to put on the blog. Then a thought hit me. No one is being forced to read this blog. It is not being broadcast to people that have no choice. You clicked yourself here and if you are not entertained you can click away. So that apology done and an a apology for future blogs that are just thoughts that I will try to write well but not make perfect. I will vow now to put thoughts out there and if God can use it to bless someone then awesome. If it is not for you then I will put links to some great blogs that I like to read and they, I promise, are very well written and entertaining.
So I have an issue that I am struggling with, I am at a church where I am in a position to help lead and hopefully turn things around. It is feeling like it is stalled and not effective in the community. Now I have no experience in how to run a church or even how to change a church. I am not a pastor. I am a pastors kid, but not a pastor. I have not been to seminary and don't know nearly as much of the bible as I would like. But, I do have a passion for getting this church off of the ground. Recently we have made some changes and immediately 4 people left the church. It didn't really phase me, but it seams to have phased the pastor. If this is a concern for the pastor are there any hopes of change in this church? Like I said I don't have the answers just my thoughts.